Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Old Fashioned Home Comedy

Well, here we are, another day another laugh! This morning I over heard this conversation between my three year old and her ten year old brother.

"Today is a beautiful and special day today!"

"Why is that?"

"Because you are out of school!"

Okay, so that one was just sweet, more precious than humorous, but it about melted my heart.

Children are so precious! I am so lucky to be a mother! I am watching my youngest, just a year old, going everywhere he can reach. He is pulling himself up on everything! My three year old loves her brothers so much! She is so honest these days. She was telling me the other day what a nice girl she is "to everyone but my brothers." She said it quite matter of factually. Hey, at least she is honest with herself and others.

The other day I was taking our ten-year old to his last day of school. The weekend before he had helped his father mow the front yard. As we pulled away from the house he observed the yard and said: "Boy, those dandelions sure grow like weeds!"

Well, there you go folks, hope you have a great day!

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Summer

I am getting so excited for this summer! The boys are done with school officially tomorrow! I am not sure everything we will be doing, but it will be great having everyone around! Now I know the boys think this is only so can nag them more, but in all truth, I enjoy hearing their ideas, watching them do their things, and I have to admit I enjoy the spurts of free-time I have when they are here to help once in a while with the younger ones.

Also this summer the two older girls are making some great choices and have invited me to be a part of it! I enjoy watching them from the side lines, and being included once in a while! What an honor! They are making some big changes in their lives and it is fun! I am sure their mother is looking in on them with a huge smile (and possibly a little bit of mischief to keep them on their toes!)

I am going to try to make a little more time for myself in attending the gym. Maybe I will be able to define my shape in a positive manner. I have to admit that I have been having a hard time. There have been so many snacks around lately, and my self control has been less than desirable...*sigh*. However, this summer is the perfect time to make some changes!

Over the years I have been reading a lot on losing weight. It seems like what I really need to do is cut back my portions, snack less, and add some exercise to my daily routine. So, I am going to continue being optimistic, and get started. You are welcome to check up on me if you would like, it would help me be more accountable.

There are some of my most recent thoughts as of late. Until next time, hope you have a great day!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Modern day Convinience?

It is funny, this afternoon a neighbor was over for only a moment and we were talking. It happens that the subject was about the exact same thing that was talked about in Relief Society this past weekend. The topic was actually broader in Relief Society, but one part stood out for me.

The topic that impressed me was about how impersonal people are becoming. It is easy to IM someone, e-mail, facebook, or even text. While these things are quick and easy it is amazing how impersonal it is. We have people faking identities, and everything out there. It is easier to be a friend from a distance almost.

I find it funny and have to laugh, because while the lesson was being taught, a friend turned to me and said something to the effect "I guess I won't be facebooking you anymore." to which I replied "I was just thinking the same thing, only of myself." The funny thing is I got a message from her a day later asking how things are going... and get this, I replied...lol!

Last week I was talking to a fellow stay-at-home mother and commenting how easy it is to lose track of time when I am away from the children, even for just a moment. I get caught up in relating stories from the week, or just talking about things a two or nearly one year old can't quite grasp.

Any way, my neighbor and I were discussing how important it is the whole personal contact thing. The whole interaction thing, its good. When you are talking face to face you can see their joys, sadness, everything that only body language can tell! besides that, a real hug means so much more sometimes than the *hug* you can get via visual...whatever.

I am ashamed to say that for me, many times I use these modern day conveniences only to simplify. Don't get me wrong, that is what we are instructed to do right? Simplify our lives, that is what we are constantly being told. But sometimes it is easier to send a message than to take the time to call someone up, and chat about the weather, politics or whatever may come to mind. I am only talking for myself, so please don't take this like I am thinking of 'you'.

I do have to say I am not going against this entirely, because, it is so much easier to spend what little precious time I have with my little ones, because I am told time and time again how quickly it will pass. However, I am going to make more of an effort to contact people in person rather than by texting, messaging, etc. I realize this isn't going to be perfect, because of modern day conveniences I live further from my family, and our older children live further from us, but, there are things I can do differently.

I can take a moment to pick up a phone for those distant, and those closer, make an effort to stop by when I am in the area.

There you have it my thoughts as of late, cherio and have a wondermous day!

Monday, May 11, 2009

Mother's Day

I am One lucky woman! I had the best Mother's Day a girl could ask for!

My children woke me in the morning with a plate if hot fried rice, one of my favorites! then I was presented with a home made card from my ten year old, I love it! He honestly is a little artist at heart. He, and my two year old and one year old with the help of their father, picked me some lilacs from the side of our house and placed them in a canning jar.

Later in the day we heard from our missionary. He is doing great, Loves his new companion, but said his new area is a little hard because there are a lot of rich people. Which indicates pride. Then we discussed that is easier to humble a rich guy, than a poor guy. He is growing tons! I enjoyed our chat!

Last but not least I was able to talk to our oldest. She did a lot of listening.

Being a stay home mom is a pleasure. I wonder though if sometimes I talk peoples ears off. Do they wish I would go some where else to talk? I appreciate the times they listen though, because after talking to a two year old and a one year old for most of the week, it sure is nice to have a big peoples ear to listen, and moth to hear. So like I said, I had a wonderful Mother's Day! Thank you!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Random Thoughts

Well, I am weening my little guy, three bites your out. Potty training is on the back burner. The quilt is started. I still have a dress waiting for adjustments. Shirts to have collars corrected. pockets t fix. Need to loose 'x' amount of pounds, this summer would be nice. Looking forward to old stomping grounds. Proud of the girls decisions! Can't wait until summer begins. Wants to make jammy bottoms for my little guy. Go to the gym to work out? Loving the sunny weather we are having. Needing to be more positive in my thinking. Need to have better relationship with Father, prayer. Spend more time in scriptures. Do better at Visiting Teaching. Positive out put. Patience. Seasons change, both outward and inward. Am I ready to start thinking on number three? Motivation, I need more of it. It is crazy watching the boys become young men! One and a half years and boy 3 will be passing the sacrament...yikes! Boy #2 will be readying for a million in just the same time. Spending time more wisely...good idea. Focus. Clothes sizes bigger...stop focus here. Think positive. Looking forward to seeing the girls this summer. Positively. Looking forward to first of December. Positive. Hubby home more this summer. I like it! need to organize my room and space. Need more ways to entertain three and one year old children. More library time. Fold the laundry. *sigh*. enjoy each moment, speaking of which, life is calling.

Monday, May 4, 2009

Tender Mercies, the top Eight

I get caught up in the moment often and forget to recognize the blessings I have so I thought I would take a moment to remember.

1. I have a wonderful husband who loves and adores myself and our children. He has made it possible that I can be a stay at home mom and watch our children grow. He provides all our family needs to be happy and for some of our wants as well. He honors his priesthood, and gives his best at home, work,and church. What an example to our children!

2. Our oldest has many talents. she loves her siblings whole heartedly and is setting a great example. She cares for everyone around her and wants them all to be happy. Did I mention she is a great cook, and I love visiting her, or having her home. I know mostly selfish on my part, cause I like her cooking.

3. Our second is just as talented in her own areas. She loves helping the underdog. She is quite, but her example also speaks louder than words. She has great self-control and discipline. I love when she calls home and shares her little stories of life's adventures.

4. Our third is in Brazil serving and loving the same people I grew attached to not so long ago. He is setting the example for his younger brothers to work whole heartedly for the Lord, and his sisters, that there are still great guys out there.

5. Our fourth has a creative mind, he is writing a book and loves to share his ideas with his father and I. He loves playing with his younger siblings and relates well with his older siblings, they even come to him for advise. As have I, he is a wise boy for his age.

6. Our fifth has a heart of gold. He is sensitive to his younger siblings and those around him. More than once I have found a vase full of flowers he has hand picked just for me. I am going to miss that down the road when he has grown and moved on, though he promises he will always be here.

7. My sixth little blessing is a match for me when it comes to wills. She has a beautiful smile and loves to make her little brother laugh! She does everything number five likes to do. She looks up to her siblings with adoration. Also, she gives the best ever hugs! She has the vocab of a teen I swear.

8. My seventh blessing is beginning to walk along furniture, he has a smile that would melt any ones heart. I think he is going to be a tender hearted little tyke like our heart of gold. He loves to sing when others are singing. And my favorite is that he loves to cuddle and to be cuddled.

These are my greatest blessings! You can see how blessed I am, there are times I need to remind myself of these blessings. It is easy when I get caught up in a moment of stinky underpants, sibling rivalry, or just the day to day mundane to forget how truly blessed I am.

Of coarse I could go on and on, the blessing of our free country, the freedom to worship, of speech, and voice. There are so many things I take for granted at one time or another. But these are my top eight blessings.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Potty Training

This potty training thing is going to be the death of me, my patience has warn thin. I watched Jon and Kate plus 8, she had her kids done in a couple of days. I have talked to everyone, and everyone has advise. Most just tell me to wait and when its the right time everything will happen.

I have a strong willed and spirited little angel on my hands, I have tried the trick of pretty panties, pull-ups at night, candy, a huge huplah, Grand recognition, a hug, a pat on the back, praise and none of it seems to work! Believe me its all been done with sincerity as well.

I am tired of scrubbing poopy undies! I am, I really am. And the patience thing only seems to eggs her on. Where is my ray of sun shine? My ray of hope? We were almost done before I went out to visit my parents. Why on earth did I go? What was I thinking?

I am throwing my hands up! I feel like giving up! AAAUGH!!!

*sigh* just took a breath, moving on. *sigh* one more for luck.