Monday, September 20, 2010
Counting My Eggs Before They Hatched...
Well, what I am about to tell you is something exciting, but boy did I ever count my eggs before they hatched! I had an ultrasound today and found out we are expecting a little boy. I am excited, now my little man will have a play mate! My problem is I thought for sure I was going to have a little girl. Last week I found this adorable fabric to make matching dresses for my girls and a matching skirt for me for Easter next year. I can't even make a quilt for this tyke with the fabric. I don't want him to be mistaken for a girl...lol. So much for getting a head of myself. I am just glad I didn't buy those two cute dresses I saw on clearance the other day.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Finish to the Week
What a great finish to my weekdays this week! We went to parent teachers conference for your boy in middle school the other night. His teachers all talked about what a great kid he is! It is comforting when others recognize what a great kid you have. They talked about how they are seeing him grow and how when he gets off task, if reminded he returns well and quickly. We were able to see some of the art work he has done and he has quite the talent in that area! It is fun to see his masked excitement when he comes home during the week. He enjoys several of his teachers and I think that makes all the difference.
Yesterday was out preschoolers first field trip. They went to Apple Acres, an orchard just outside of town. It was fun to attend and see how she interacts with her peer group. Their conversations were so much different than that of the older children I have in and out of my home. It was fun to experience. Once there, the children were given a tour of the cleaning process and the machinery used to make cider and apple sauce. Later the were shown out to the orchard. Their teacher prepared them by telling them they were preschoolers, and not pickers, so please don't touch the apples. It turned out the owner was out picking in our area and helped each of the children pick their own apples. They then returned to the main building and were able and watch them go through the cleaning process, and finally enjoy the flavor of their surprise. Their teacher let them run through the orchard and see the different types of apple trees. The kids all seemed to have a great time. To prepare her class for this trip, their teacher has given them apple treats throughout the week. My preschoolers favorite treat was the home made apple cider...I need to get the recipe from her teacher...I have been being begged for it all week.
Last night some of our friends had us over for dinner. It was nice being able to just chat about life and enjoy their friendships. It was a reprieve from the day to day for me. The kids have 1 or more friends their age with these friends and it is a pleasant mix. It is a blessing to have all of the good friends I have, these included.
Today will be a little bit of this and a little bit of that when it comes to catching up around the house. Here a little and there a little. Spending some quality time with family and getting ready for the week to come. I hope you have a great weekend!
P.S. My littlest man just went potty on the big boy toilet for the first time! Yay! Now he knows it wont nibble his bum or something scary like that! Yes! Already I am seeing the light at the end of a tunnel...even if it is a long one.
Yesterday was out preschoolers first field trip. They went to Apple Acres, an orchard just outside of town. It was fun to attend and see how she interacts with her peer group. Their conversations were so much different than that of the older children I have in and out of my home. It was fun to experience. Once there, the children were given a tour of the cleaning process and the machinery used to make cider and apple sauce. Later the were shown out to the orchard. Their teacher prepared them by telling them they were preschoolers, and not pickers, so please don't touch the apples. It turned out the owner was out picking in our area and helped each of the children pick their own apples. They then returned to the main building and were able and watch them go through the cleaning process, and finally enjoy the flavor of their surprise. Their teacher let them run through the orchard and see the different types of apple trees. The kids all seemed to have a great time. To prepare her class for this trip, their teacher has given them apple treats throughout the week. My preschoolers favorite treat was the home made apple cider...I need to get the recipe from her teacher...I have been being begged for it all week.
Last night some of our friends had us over for dinner. It was nice being able to just chat about life and enjoy their friendships. It was a reprieve from the day to day for me. The kids have 1 or more friends their age with these friends and it is a pleasant mix. It is a blessing to have all of the good friends I have, these included.
Today will be a little bit of this and a little bit of that when it comes to catching up around the house. Here a little and there a little. Spending some quality time with family and getting ready for the week to come. I hope you have a great weekend!
P.S. My littlest man just went potty on the big boy toilet for the first time! Yay! Now he knows it wont nibble his bum or something scary like that! Yes! Already I am seeing the light at the end of a tunnel...even if it is a long one.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Signs of Fall
I had to take a moment and share how I absolutely love this time of year! Yesterday while taking my preschooler to school I drove past where we have our farmers market. They have it each Wednesday eventing and Saturday morning From when the weather is warm enough, until it gets just a little too cool. Farmers come from surrounding areas bringing in their crops harvest and sharing it with the city folk. We see fruits, vegetables, jellies and jams, some crafts, and jerky.
Back to the point, it was fun seeing the farmers pull in with their truck loads of pumpkins and gourds yesterday, along with the late fall melons. The air is cooling and there is a crisp feeling, sometimes a nip in the air. If I were where I grew up the mountains would begin their color makeovers about this time of year and be in full array by next month. Each season has something to anticipate. My heart was lifted yesterday when I saw the first signs of fall. I hope you all have a pleasurable week!
Back to the point, it was fun seeing the farmers pull in with their truck loads of pumpkins and gourds yesterday, along with the late fall melons. The air is cooling and there is a crisp feeling, sometimes a nip in the air. If I were where I grew up the mountains would begin their color makeovers about this time of year and be in full array by next month. Each season has something to anticipate. My heart was lifted yesterday when I saw the first signs of fall. I hope you all have a pleasurable week!
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Counting the Moments...
While wondering around one of my favorite think sights I saw this saying: "Don't count down the moments, rather make each moment count."
My mind began wondering on all of the things I have been counting down lately. There are too many things. I am ashamed to say that most of them are for my own selfish reasons. Things like Not being able to wait for this last little peanut to be born, then potty trained (I know let it come first...) I would like the diaper phase to be over. (Honestly I think I can say I won't miss this phase in particular.) I have thought to myself how nice it would be to have my own "space". Tons of things and so I won't take the time to mention them all.
Then I started thinking about the things I have been counting down. Do I want my children in my stewardship to feel like I don't want them around, or out of the way? No. I want them to feel loved, accepted and appreciated. The best way to do that is to do like the quote said and make the most of each moment. Children remember feelings. They remember some of the lessons taught, but mostly how they felt. Am I making their experience something they can look back on with fondness?
It comes back to spending time wisely. What am I doing to make the time enjoyable, not only for myself, but them also. It won't be all that far down the road that I will be wishing they were around more and feeling I have too much time and "space" to myself.
The chances of them coming around more in the future depend on how I make them feel now. If they feel welcomed, cherished and enjoyed, they will be willing to return to that more often than not. So, I need to stop counting the moments and making the moments count.
My mind began wondering on all of the things I have been counting down lately. There are too many things. I am ashamed to say that most of them are for my own selfish reasons. Things like Not being able to wait for this last little peanut to be born, then potty trained (I know let it come first...) I would like the diaper phase to be over. (Honestly I think I can say I won't miss this phase in particular.) I have thought to myself how nice it would be to have my own "space". Tons of things and so I won't take the time to mention them all.
Then I started thinking about the things I have been counting down. Do I want my children in my stewardship to feel like I don't want them around, or out of the way? No. I want them to feel loved, accepted and appreciated. The best way to do that is to do like the quote said and make the most of each moment. Children remember feelings. They remember some of the lessons taught, but mostly how they felt. Am I making their experience something they can look back on with fondness?
It comes back to spending time wisely. What am I doing to make the time enjoyable, not only for myself, but them also. It won't be all that far down the road that I will be wishing they were around more and feeling I have too much time and "space" to myself.
The chances of them coming around more in the future depend on how I make them feel now. If they feel welcomed, cherished and enjoyed, they will be willing to return to that more often than not. So, I need to stop counting the moments and making the moments count.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Parenting 101
I was watching an add today and touched deeply. The title is: "Parenting:the Hearts of Our Youth, found on www.youtube.com" Now I need to act on it.
The add was on being a parent and how important our roll is. It is important that we are there for our children. By being there we need to put things aside and treat our children the way we would one of our colleagues or friends our age. Turn away from the television, the computer, a book we are reading or what ever may be distracting us from our children. Take the time to listen to them. By listening to them converse with them and let them know we are hearing what they are saying.
I have a habit of listening per sei, but forgetting what they are saying or not hearing what they are saying. It is quite often to easy for me to be engrossed with what ever I am doing to tune them out. Sometimes I find myself putting them off for a lesser activity. That cold come back to me one day, then how would I like that? Most likely not.
Another point that was made in the add was how important it is for us as parents to participate in their children's lives. When taking them to school turn off the radio and listen to their concerns, their dreams, and taking moments to share our thoughts and teach them. I found this interesting for myself because Sometimes the things I listen too aren't necessarily bad, but they are distracting me from the more important moment.
My children are only going to be little once. My step-children are only going to be here for a bit and then they will grow up and do their own thing.So the best time for me to develop a relationship with them would be right now. I think of all of these great things I can do for my family, scrap-booking, sewing, photography, so many good things that will be appreciated in the future right?
But really there are other things that will be even more appreciated today. A ready ear to listen, time out to play a family game, do a family activity, or a walk were we can ponder the days events with out the distractions of life.
If I wait until tomarrow I will have a lot of empty yesterdays. Today I will make the changes I need. Here goes.
The add was on being a parent and how important our roll is. It is important that we are there for our children. By being there we need to put things aside and treat our children the way we would one of our colleagues or friends our age. Turn away from the television, the computer, a book we are reading or what ever may be distracting us from our children. Take the time to listen to them. By listening to them converse with them and let them know we are hearing what they are saying.
I have a habit of listening per sei, but forgetting what they are saying or not hearing what they are saying. It is quite often to easy for me to be engrossed with what ever I am doing to tune them out. Sometimes I find myself putting them off for a lesser activity. That cold come back to me one day, then how would I like that? Most likely not.
Another point that was made in the add was how important it is for us as parents to participate in their children's lives. When taking them to school turn off the radio and listen to their concerns, their dreams, and taking moments to share our thoughts and teach them. I found this interesting for myself because Sometimes the things I listen too aren't necessarily bad, but they are distracting me from the more important moment.
My children are only going to be little once. My step-children are only going to be here for a bit and then they will grow up and do their own thing.So the best time for me to develop a relationship with them would be right now. I think of all of these great things I can do for my family, scrap-booking, sewing, photography, so many good things that will be appreciated in the future right?
But really there are other things that will be even more appreciated today. A ready ear to listen, time out to play a family game, do a family activity, or a walk were we can ponder the days events with out the distractions of life.
If I wait until tomarrow I will have a lot of empty yesterdays. Today I will make the changes I need. Here goes.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
This summer has been a crazy one! Either we have been on the road, or had people dropping in for extended periods of time. It has been great! I love when family stops through! Some of them I have not seen in years, and it is great getting re-acquainted.
Grandma, an Aunt, and two Cousins stopped in. It is exciting to hear how people are growing Where life's paths have and are taking them. It is especially fun to see each generations perspective in life and how just the day to day is affecting each of us. Many things have not changed, yet we are all grwing in our own little ways. Big ways too! Each of us are having different life lessons taught to us and when we discuss these lessons it seems to help others grow a well.
My Brother had been able to stop in and it was great! He had not seen one of the cousins since he was 11, we will admit we are now in our thirties. My brother is a great guy and it is great hearing others acknowledge this. He looks a little rough on the exterior, if he wasn't my brother I might not have taken the time to know that really he is just a big caring teddy bear. What a luck sister I am.
I am looking forward to seeing more of the family from both my husbands and my side in the next couple of weeks. My Hubby is a bit older than I so his family is through with the drama mostly, I enjoy talking about philosophy with them and hearing about the lessons they are learning and yet discovering. With my own family it is always fun to reminisce about the good ole days and share the lessons we are learning.
Grandma, an Aunt, and two Cousins stopped in. It is exciting to hear how people are growing Where life's paths have and are taking them. It is especially fun to see each generations perspective in life and how just the day to day is affecting each of us. Many things have not changed, yet we are all grwing in our own little ways. Big ways too! Each of us are having different life lessons taught to us and when we discuss these lessons it seems to help others grow a well.
My Brother had been able to stop in and it was great! He had not seen one of the cousins since he was 11, we will admit we are now in our thirties. My brother is a great guy and it is great hearing others acknowledge this. He looks a little rough on the exterior, if he wasn't my brother I might not have taken the time to know that really he is just a big caring teddy bear. What a luck sister I am.
I am looking forward to seeing more of the family from both my husbands and my side in the next couple of weeks. My Hubby is a bit older than I so his family is through with the drama mostly, I enjoy talking about philosophy with them and hearing about the lessons they are learning and yet discovering. With my own family it is always fun to reminisce about the good ole days and share the lessons we are learning.
Thursday, August 5, 2010
A Glimps with Purpous
Today I was running some errands. My precious little man always wants to go. "I go wiff you mom?" or dad, or to his big brothers, whomever may be heading to the door with keys in hand. It melts our hearts. So I invited him and big sister. Among my errands was a stop at a friends home. My husband and I had a hot date lined up for this weekend with them which we were going to need to change. I was dreading stopping and having to tell them for fear it may not work out for whatever reason.
My dear friend met me on the porch with some sad news. As she shared with me, my two little ones were running circles and jumping off the porch. They were laughing and giggling. She invited us in and they continued their little circus. They showed how they have learned to turn somersaults, jump high, and jump far. My little man explained how everyone is "taw!"(tall) and showed how his vocabulary is continuing to grow.
We had a pleasant visit. I enjoyed our visit, it turns out that next weekend will be just as great! My two little ones helped lift two lowly hearts. That is the purpose of little ones. To keep us young at heart, and help us lift or lighten some of the sad moments we have to experience. They are blessings, of that I am quite sure.
My dear friend met me on the porch with some sad news. As she shared with me, my two little ones were running circles and jumping off the porch. They were laughing and giggling. She invited us in and they continued their little circus. They showed how they have learned to turn somersaults, jump high, and jump far. My little man explained how everyone is "taw!"(tall) and showed how his vocabulary is continuing to grow.
We had a pleasant visit. I enjoyed our visit, it turns out that next weekend will be just as great! My two little ones helped lift two lowly hearts. That is the purpose of little ones. To keep us young at heart, and help us lift or lighten some of the sad moments we have to experience. They are blessings, of that I am quite sure.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
I Wanna Kiw You....What?
My little man tells his father tonight:"Da, I wanna kiw you.?
"what? You want to Key me?"
"No. I wanna kiw you."
"Show me what you want"
"K, way on na fwooe"
"Like this?" Kneeling down to give a horsey ride.
"No da. na fwoo."
"Like this?" my husband asks as he lies down on his stomach?
"No da! Na fwooe!"
My husband roles over on his back, "Like this?"
"Yes! Den I do dis" he runs and jumps on his daddys belly and my hubby says "Your killing me! Your killing me!"
to which my son replies "Dat wight da, I do again!"
So if my little man asks to kill you you know understand what is expected of you. My husband and I were laughing! And still we are laughing!
"what? You want to Key me?"
"No. I wanna kiw you."
"Show me what you want"
"K, way on na fwooe"
"Like this?" Kneeling down to give a horsey ride.
"No da. na fwoo."
"Like this?" my husband asks as he lies down on his stomach?
"No da! Na fwooe!"
My husband roles over on his back, "Like this?"
"Yes! Den I do dis" he runs and jumps on his daddys belly and my hubby says "Your killing me! Your killing me!"
to which my son replies "Dat wight da, I do again!"
So if my little man asks to kill you you know understand what is expected of you. My husband and I were laughing! And still we are laughing!
For those of you who have not heard the news, I am expecting my third, the eighth in our clan. I am already (I hate to admit) looking at things and excited that they will be gone and over with the next year and on.
I have been watching the two younger one's as of late and they are already growing so fast. It blows me away! It is fun to watch each step in the discovery aspect of life, whether it be language, book knowledge, social skills, or just the day to day things life presents. I see myself growing sometimes and wonder why I have not yet learned some of the lessons I seem to be taught again and again. There seems to be degrees by which to learn some of life's lessons.
The different seasons of life and lessons that come with those seasons seem to cease to surprise me. My little man is becoming quite verbal and expressive. He has left us all giggling at one time or another these recent days. My Little lady loves to collect things. Everything to be exact. Be it rocks, leaves, or the tags from her clothes she feels a great need to keep it all. I need to help her become organized in her collecting and maybe focused on one or two things instead of everything.
So much to do and so little time. Actually I am going trough this spot in time where I am having difficulty being organized myself. It is over whelming. Where to begin? What are my priorities? What do I want accomplished. Dang. I look at things as a whole and think: "Must simplify. Must get rid of" then I begin to look at things individually and think "Must hold on. May need in the future." *Sigh* There are things that are replaceable. There are also things that seem necessary, yet it has been quite a while since I have used it...and I hate to admit I may have forgot about it and already replaced it. Is this the "American cycle" I need to leave it. I am on my way out.
I have been watching the two younger one's as of late and they are already growing so fast. It blows me away! It is fun to watch each step in the discovery aspect of life, whether it be language, book knowledge, social skills, or just the day to day things life presents. I see myself growing sometimes and wonder why I have not yet learned some of the lessons I seem to be taught again and again. There seems to be degrees by which to learn some of life's lessons.
The different seasons of life and lessons that come with those seasons seem to cease to surprise me. My little man is becoming quite verbal and expressive. He has left us all giggling at one time or another these recent days. My Little lady loves to collect things. Everything to be exact. Be it rocks, leaves, or the tags from her clothes she feels a great need to keep it all. I need to help her become organized in her collecting and maybe focused on one or two things instead of everything.
So much to do and so little time. Actually I am going trough this spot in time where I am having difficulty being organized myself. It is over whelming. Where to begin? What are my priorities? What do I want accomplished. Dang. I look at things as a whole and think: "Must simplify. Must get rid of" then I begin to look at things individually and think "Must hold on. May need in the future." *Sigh* There are things that are replaceable. There are also things that seem necessary, yet it has been quite a while since I have used it...and I hate to admit I may have forgot about it and already replaced it. Is this the "American cycle" I need to leave it. I am on my way out.
Friday, July 23, 2010
Honesty
A conversation over heard just now between my 2 yr old and 12 yr old:
"Ugh! What is that smell?" asked with disgust by the 12 yr old.
"Dat me!" responds the two yr old quite too proudly after filling his diaper.
"Ugh! What is that smell?" asked with disgust by the 12 yr old.
"Dat me!" responds the two yr old quite too proudly after filling his diaper.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
I have had a lot on my mind as of late. This year I am learning some good lessons. I have learned I can't please everyone. Some people don't want you to please them, they are looking for reasons to dis-like you for what ever reason the conjure up. I am becoming Okay with that. I am not here to please everyone, mainly my Heavenly Father, Husband, and myself. If I can help others along the way that is great, but not necessary. I am feeling more comfortable with that than I have been in the past.
Also in these lessons I have come to this conclusion: I am blessed, I am. I have a husband who loves and adores me despite my short comings. He is my very best friend. He has the most reliable advice for someone I can talk to in person. I have a Heavenly Father that not only loves me, but is patient with me as I learn these lessons and do my best in finding a happy medium when I swing from right to left. He too is a reliable source on which I can rely. He truely wants my happiness, even if gaining that happiness feels painful at times.
Through these lessons I am learning to respect myself and not let others walk all over me. I don't have time to feel sorry for myself. My children need a mother whose focus is on them, not herself. I am finding there are many "gifts" I don't have to accept. I do better with out them. I am still learning to gracefully decline these gifts, it will come with time. Some "gifts" aren't intended to be warm fuzzies. I am learning to recognize the difference.
As long as I respect myself and others I am doing Okay. It helps to remind myself that they are children of God as well, and He loves them as He does me. I do have to say in the 'moment of things' I do forget this sometimes. Again, thanks to an older brother who has made it possible to repent.
Over all, I am thankful for the gospel in my life. With out it, I think I have been given many reasons to have become a bitter, acidic person. I am not perfect, but I am happy with my life and the friends that come and go, and the ones that stay. I am blessed.
Also in these lessons I have come to this conclusion: I am blessed, I am. I have a husband who loves and adores me despite my short comings. He is my very best friend. He has the most reliable advice for someone I can talk to in person. I have a Heavenly Father that not only loves me, but is patient with me as I learn these lessons and do my best in finding a happy medium when I swing from right to left. He too is a reliable source on which I can rely. He truely wants my happiness, even if gaining that happiness feels painful at times.
Through these lessons I am learning to respect myself and not let others walk all over me. I don't have time to feel sorry for myself. My children need a mother whose focus is on them, not herself. I am finding there are many "gifts" I don't have to accept. I do better with out them. I am still learning to gracefully decline these gifts, it will come with time. Some "gifts" aren't intended to be warm fuzzies. I am learning to recognize the difference.
As long as I respect myself and others I am doing Okay. It helps to remind myself that they are children of God as well, and He loves them as He does me. I do have to say in the 'moment of things' I do forget this sometimes. Again, thanks to an older brother who has made it possible to repent.
Over all, I am thankful for the gospel in my life. With out it, I think I have been given many reasons to have become a bitter, acidic person. I am not perfect, but I am happy with my life and the friends that come and go, and the ones that stay. I am blessed.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
My minds eye...
Well we are well into the summer! Enjoying zucchini from the garden, a tomato at a time, and fresh green beans. My husband makes the best fried rice this time of year with products from our garden. I am one lucky lady! The boys have been keeping up the yard and enjoying each other. I am enjoying a visit from my mom. Yesterday I took the two little ones to a petting farm. For the most part they enjoyed it. The park has two Shetland ponies, a mule, pot-belly pig, a couple kids, a calf, chickens, a ferret, a hamster, and a few other miscellaneous animals. The youngest pony grabbed one of the baby goats on the hip and carried it around while it cried for help. I don't think this scared my daughter badly, but my son would have nothing to do with it after words. I am grateful to the good friends I have out here who are there for me for big and small things. I am looking forward to seeing our young man go to the temple for his first time. He is excited about the best of things this summer: going to the temple, spending time with family, having his big brother home for the fall. I look at the innocents of these kids and sometimes wish I could be there again. I don't want to relive anything, I am content with up-until-now, its just the joy found in little things. I think as an adult I get caught up in moments and forget to enjoy little things along the way. That is something I need to work on. Any way, these are a few of my thoughts as of late.
Monday, June 28, 2010
Summer Fun
Well, here are some pics I promised last week of the middle boys play. They weren't downloaded in order, I am still trying to figure some of this computer stuff out.The play was a hit! They did an episode from Law and Order. A college student has been murdered, the suspects are his edgy girlfriend, and a class mate. The students did a great job.
He said he had a great time...until they made him sing and dance to a girl song. Honestly what boy is going to admit enjoying something like that? The boy had a fun time doing sound effects and doing this with his friends. We enjoyed watching the developing talent at work. I have to say I have never seen anyone play dead better than our boy. He didn't crack, he took his role quite seriously.
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
I believe I can honestly say summer is in full swing here at our home in Nebraska! The sun is out daily. The humidity is laying itself on thick. The garden is producing. Mosquitoes are biting. It is all lovely if I do say so myself. Life is good.
Our Middle boy at home is taking acting classes this week. When first told about it, well, lets just say there was a bit of wailing and gnashing of teeth going on. Upon picking him up from his first practice yesterday I nearly had to drag him out. And guess what, all the way home I heard about how great this is going to be!
Today our middle boy got the desired part in his play. YES! He plays dead. Between scenes he will be helping with sound effects, and lighting. Sweet! How cool is that! No lines to memorize!
He and his friends will be preforming this Friday, I will try to remember my camera, so you can see the action. I am actually excited about this. For you see he and his older brothers will go out in the yard for hours and act out things they are writing in their books, or just have fun role playing war scenes of sorts. I think he will do great!
So there is a pinch of what this summer holds. I can hardly wait so see the results!
Our Middle boy at home is taking acting classes this week. When first told about it, well, lets just say there was a bit of wailing and gnashing of teeth going on. Upon picking him up from his first practice yesterday I nearly had to drag him out. And guess what, all the way home I heard about how great this is going to be!
Today our middle boy got the desired part in his play. YES! He plays dead. Between scenes he will be helping with sound effects, and lighting. Sweet! How cool is that! No lines to memorize!
He and his friends will be preforming this Friday, I will try to remember my camera, so you can see the action. I am actually excited about this. For you see he and his older brothers will go out in the yard for hours and act out things they are writing in their books, or just have fun role playing war scenes of sorts. I think he will do great!
So there is a pinch of what this summer holds. I can hardly wait so see the results!
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
I hate to complain. But today was one of those days! The kids were at each others throats pretty much all day. It was off and on, but all day the same. Is it the weather? I guess I could make that the excuse. If I am looking for one.
The weather was beautiful, 88 degrees out side, tomorrow is supposed to be even warmer. There was a nice breeze to go with the heat so it really didn't feel quite so bad.
I dropped one of the children off at a friends and was able to visit, while the children ran off to play. It was a pleasant visit, out on the porch, enjoying the beautiful weather, and the laughter of children. That was the case until I hear my daughter railing on someone more than double her age. Where does she get this? Is it being tired? Ugh.
Another friend was telling me about these parenting classes. I might need to look into them. I have two strong willed little spirits who have been placed in my care, and many times I feel like I am beating my head against a brick wall.
The group I was told about is Love and Logic. This came from a guy who had the same perspective I had when it comes to child rearing. Don't get me wrong, I don't believe in spanking and beatings, but definitely consequences, time outs, what ever it takes. This friend has done a 160 and has the respect of his children and others. Not that he didn't before, just a new height. They know when he is joking and when he is serious. And he is taken seriously.
He doesn't make empty or unrealistic threats. In fact, he doesn't use threats.Instead he gives consequences to his children and others. The consequences seem natural and realistic according to each child's age and personality. Much like the way Heavenly Father deals with us, He lets the natural consequences take place, He doesn't shield us from them. How else would we learn? Oh, this is good, I am seeing how I really should look into taking those classes.
These were my thoughts today. There you go, pretty exciting eh?
The weather was beautiful, 88 degrees out side, tomorrow is supposed to be even warmer. There was a nice breeze to go with the heat so it really didn't feel quite so bad.
I dropped one of the children off at a friends and was able to visit, while the children ran off to play. It was a pleasant visit, out on the porch, enjoying the beautiful weather, and the laughter of children. That was the case until I hear my daughter railing on someone more than double her age. Where does she get this? Is it being tired? Ugh.
Another friend was telling me about these parenting classes. I might need to look into them. I have two strong willed little spirits who have been placed in my care, and many times I feel like I am beating my head against a brick wall.
The group I was told about is Love and Logic. This came from a guy who had the same perspective I had when it comes to child rearing. Don't get me wrong, I don't believe in spanking and beatings, but definitely consequences, time outs, what ever it takes. This friend has done a 160 and has the respect of his children and others. Not that he didn't before, just a new height. They know when he is joking and when he is serious. And he is taken seriously.
He doesn't make empty or unrealistic threats. In fact, he doesn't use threats.Instead he gives consequences to his children and others. The consequences seem natural and realistic according to each child's age and personality. Much like the way Heavenly Father deals with us, He lets the natural consequences take place, He doesn't shield us from them. How else would we learn? Oh, this is good, I am seeing how I really should look into taking those classes.
These were my thoughts today. There you go, pretty exciting eh?
Monday, June 7, 2010
A Moments Thought.
Another day, another dollar. I have a feeling my posts are going to be a bit more spaced out. With summer here life seems too be picking up rather than slowing down. What is up with that?
This past weekend was great, the older boys here at home have both moved forward with their callings towards manhood. I am quite proud of them both. It isn't everyday two brothers of different ages are able to advance as they have. The younger of the two was quite excited when he found out he would become a Deacon the same day his older brother became an Elder! Yes! What good young men have been placed in my stewardship at this time. What examples.
So we now have one preparing for a mission (the next 7-8 months will pass quickly) and another preparing to pick up where his older brother will be leaving. It is odd to be on the watching end of life. I enjoy it thoroughly though. These boys are turning into handsome young men.
My husband and I were talking the other day. When our 12 year old leaves for his mission, his sister will be entering young womens, and the younger brother will be terrorizing his teachers, surprising us with what he has learned along the way. I realize this is 7 years away, but I have been married for 5 years which have passed rather quickly.
In the barber shop where I once worked I had several gentlemen tell me "wait till you are my age, then you will see time fly, in fact you may wonder where it has gone." I am finding not even half their age that it is already going more quickly than I would like at times. I enjoy watching the children grow and experience the seasons of their lives. Like I said, it is just odd to be on the watching end.
This past weekend was great, the older boys here at home have both moved forward with their callings towards manhood. I am quite proud of them both. It isn't everyday two brothers of different ages are able to advance as they have. The younger of the two was quite excited when he found out he would become a Deacon the same day his older brother became an Elder! Yes! What good young men have been placed in my stewardship at this time. What examples.
So we now have one preparing for a mission (the next 7-8 months will pass quickly) and another preparing to pick up where his older brother will be leaving. It is odd to be on the watching end of life. I enjoy it thoroughly though. These boys are turning into handsome young men.
My husband and I were talking the other day. When our 12 year old leaves for his mission, his sister will be entering young womens, and the younger brother will be terrorizing his teachers, surprising us with what he has learned along the way. I realize this is 7 years away, but I have been married for 5 years which have passed rather quickly.
In the barber shop where I once worked I had several gentlemen tell me "wait till you are my age, then you will see time fly, in fact you may wonder where it has gone." I am finding not even half their age that it is already going more quickly than I would like at times. I enjoy watching the children grow and experience the seasons of their lives. Like I said, it is just odd to be on the watching end.
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Summer
Brothers enjoying the summer sun and time together.
Enjoying the wonders of summer
He has these slides whipped! No fear what so ever!
Life is a balancing act.
Here is one of my monkeys at the park.I love this time of year! The children are growing and enjoying the great out doors. The garden is beginning to produce, and we are enjoying its fruits per-sei. Flowers are blooming. Life is happening. More time with family. The sun is out. What a great season to enjoy. It is a time to enjoy and appreciate all of God's wonders and beauties. I love this time of year.
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Yes!!!
Guess what! Our middle boy graduated from High School today! It was exciting to watch him walk proudly up and receive his diploma. Job well done!
I am enjoying watching these children take their steps one at a time and experiencing each season of their lives. There are so many blessings to this season of my life. Life is good. It is full of good family, friends and blessings. I really can't ask for more right now.
Friday, May 7, 2010
Yay!!!
The eldest of my step-children will be done with school! I think she said she only has a couple more hours to complete! Am I excited? Lets just say...YES! (Only a little....jumping up and down!) Don't tell any one, I think I am not supposed to be too happy. So I'm not. I know her mother is looking down on her as proud as can be...bursting with the pride only a mother can feel. (We won't tell any one us step-mothers can feel the pride too.) Dang, that is double the pride going in one direction, can that happen? Duh, it already has!
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Shigrins
This morning my little guy came up to me crying. While comforting him I noticed a "fresh" or should I say "ripe" odor. While I still holding him, I asked "Hey little man, are you stinky?"
He quickly replied:"No, daddy bum is tinky!"
Poor kid, his head just happens to be at the height that he would probably know better than any one else. The thing is, Dad is at work, so how would he know? Bet he can't wait to grow a couple feet taller!
He quickly replied:"No, daddy bum is tinky!"
Poor kid, his head just happens to be at the height that he would probably know better than any one else. The thing is, Dad is at work, so how would he know? Bet he can't wait to grow a couple feet taller!
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
This weekend was Stake Conference. It is where our church in this and surrounding areas (I think I have been told it just over 600 square miles we cover) come together to worship the Savior. We come to hear the message and testimonies of leaders and loved ones. And I must admit it is a time to see cherished friends and their growing families.
This one was particularly up lifting for me. We were told when we see those we love struggling, or even our selves, we should pray for strength to get through and over come our struggles rather than pray for relief of these struggles.
We were told that missionary work should be being our selves. If we are happy, people will see that happiness and want it for their selves. Be open with them. As members we have a tendency to put up walls our selves. We were told it is as easy as welcoming a new neighbor with cookies and a card telling them if they don't have a church we would love to see them at ours.
Instruction was to attend the temple when ever we can. Make the time. It will be a strength to not only us as individuals, but also to our families.
I gained a lot from listening. My favorite part was to pray for strength rather than freedom of trials. How often I have done the opposite for myself and others. It is funny, we were told that those trials may bring our greatest blessings.
Today I watched a video "My New Life" on you tube. The girl in the story is such an inspiration for me, in so many ways. She has had trials worse than my own and through them she has been brought closer to God.
This one was particularly up lifting for me. We were told when we see those we love struggling, or even our selves, we should pray for strength to get through and over come our struggles rather than pray for relief of these struggles.
We were told that missionary work should be being our selves. If we are happy, people will see that happiness and want it for their selves. Be open with them. As members we have a tendency to put up walls our selves. We were told it is as easy as welcoming a new neighbor with cookies and a card telling them if they don't have a church we would love to see them at ours.
Instruction was to attend the temple when ever we can. Make the time. It will be a strength to not only us as individuals, but also to our families.
I gained a lot from listening. My favorite part was to pray for strength rather than freedom of trials. How often I have done the opposite for myself and others. It is funny, we were told that those trials may bring our greatest blessings.
Today I watched a video "My New Life" on you tube. The girl in the story is such an inspiration for me, in so many ways. She has had trials worse than my own and through them she has been brought closer to God.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
R.I.P.
We became friend just over a year and a half ago. I took most of your friends under my wing and with thought and delight we became one in purpose. You on the other hand have been more stubborn than I would have guessed. Each day I would eye you and be glad you weren't quite mine. I would go days if I could to pass and not eye you and your begrudging look.
Once in a great while I would try to imagine you as to what would please my eye, but come up a blank each time that I tried. And so I thought I might wait. At time you would most assuredly come to understand. I would let you come and see my terms. I was patient, spoke no unkind words or be shirked. I waited a year, nearly two and so, I have yet to see your remorse. Still you show me none, nor any desire to change.
Well, today I took it into my hands! I tore and I pried, I took no thought any more. For I see that our will can not become one with out some motivation on your side. As I tore at your decor
and ripped them to shreds my imagination ran rampid with glee! For you see, it is now I can imagine you as I please and you will be more welcoming to those who enter thee!
The Loony Toons Paper has put up its fight, a good one I say in deed. However its down now and cant be replaced, now my mind can be put at ease. Farewell paper, I will store the memories you have left, and remember things I would not repeat.
Once in a great while I would try to imagine you as to what would please my eye, but come up a blank each time that I tried. And so I thought I might wait. At time you would most assuredly come to understand. I would let you come and see my terms. I was patient, spoke no unkind words or be shirked. I waited a year, nearly two and so, I have yet to see your remorse. Still you show me none, nor any desire to change.
Well, today I took it into my hands! I tore and I pried, I took no thought any more. For I see that our will can not become one with out some motivation on your side. As I tore at your decor
and ripped them to shreds my imagination ran rampid with glee! For you see, it is now I can imagine you as I please and you will be more welcoming to those who enter thee!
The Loony Toons Paper has put up its fight, a good one I say in deed. However its down now and cant be replaced, now my mind can be put at ease. Farewell paper, I will store the memories you have left, and remember things I would not repeat.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Child Like
I have been pondering a lot lately why it is God asks us to become as little children.
Children are meek. They forgive easily. Children trust whole heartily. They look past our flaws, in fact I think they don't notice them at times. They do their best to do their best. They give simple and precious gifts. They are made happy with simple acts of love and don't need a lot, just love attention and to know they are number one in your book. They love to be held and love praise. They are kind to everyone(I realize this is not always in their favor). They turn to their parents when they are hurt to find comfort. they are precious beyond words.
So what can I learn from this?
I need to be meek and easy to forgive. I need to trust my Heavenly Father whole heartily. I need to look past others flaws and love them for who they are. Respect them.
I need to give my best and when I fail, trust that God will forgive me and take me back. I need to give my time to those in my stewardship, let them know they are loved, words are not enough, actions often speak louder that words.
I need to look for the blessings in my life and focus on them rather than the negative that life seems to throw my way some days. If I give time to think about these things, I can more see the hand of God in my life and then turn what look like stumbling blocks into stepping stones. These stones can bring me closer to Him rather than away. In reaching for Him I will feel His arms around me. I may even hear His voice in my heart if I take the time to listen.
When I am hurt or angry I should turn to the Lord to find peace and comfort. By counting the blessing He has placed in my life...namely the Savior, there should be no question that I am number one in his book. I should trust that He loves me just like he loves the next person. With that, He does love the other person and so I should forgive them or ask their forgiveness. Then the circle begins again, and again I need to humble myself and relearn these basic steps.
I am sure there is much more to be learned from this, but this is the lesson I have learned in this sitting.
Children are meek. They forgive easily. Children trust whole heartily. They look past our flaws, in fact I think they don't notice them at times. They do their best to do their best. They give simple and precious gifts. They are made happy with simple acts of love and don't need a lot, just love attention and to know they are number one in your book. They love to be held and love praise. They are kind to everyone(I realize this is not always in their favor). They turn to their parents when they are hurt to find comfort. they are precious beyond words.
So what can I learn from this?
I need to be meek and easy to forgive. I need to trust my Heavenly Father whole heartily. I need to look past others flaws and love them for who they are. Respect them.
I need to give my best and when I fail, trust that God will forgive me and take me back. I need to give my time to those in my stewardship, let them know they are loved, words are not enough, actions often speak louder that words.
I need to look for the blessings in my life and focus on them rather than the negative that life seems to throw my way some days. If I give time to think about these things, I can more see the hand of God in my life and then turn what look like stumbling blocks into stepping stones. These stones can bring me closer to Him rather than away. In reaching for Him I will feel His arms around me. I may even hear His voice in my heart if I take the time to listen.
When I am hurt or angry I should turn to the Lord to find peace and comfort. By counting the blessing He has placed in my life...namely the Savior, there should be no question that I am number one in his book. I should trust that He loves me just like he loves the next person. With that, He does love the other person and so I should forgive them or ask their forgiveness. Then the circle begins again, and again I need to humble myself and relearn these basic steps.
I am sure there is much more to be learned from this, but this is the lesson I have learned in this sitting.
Monday, April 19, 2010
Another great weekend has come and gone. We have family that moved a bit closer, so we went out to help them unpack a bit. I had no clue what a joy it was going to be. We had others join us in our cause, and it was a blast to get to know them! Oh the stories I heard! They were great! I bet there was some black mail material shared. We all had a great time!
It will be so nice having more family in our radius!
Our eldest son was home for the week and it was nice having him around. He joined us with family on his way back to school. He made most of the way back to school without incident. However, towards the end he threw in a couple adventures just to spice up the monotony of the drive. He was able to get to know Ogden a bit better, and then a highway patrol officer just outside of Pocatello. Oh, I shouldn't leave the last part hanging like that. His car broke down. The officer assisted him in getting a tow truck. His sister was out there quick as a flash to help him the rest of his stretch, that was a relief to us.
In his second adventure our guy tried to call us to let us know what was happening and see if his Dad had suggestions in what may be the problem. We were in a meeting and were not able to leave right away to answer the call, he called 9 times! I was worried, so when i called him back, I asked if everything was alright. His response was alarming to say the least, it went something to this effect: "my car broke down, My friend tried to wave down some help, got hit by a car and we are waiting for an ambulance!!!" I just about had a heart attack right there and then. I am glad though that it was not the case.
With that, I hope you have a great week. Until next time!
It will be so nice having more family in our radius!
Our eldest son was home for the week and it was nice having him around. He joined us with family on his way back to school. He made most of the way back to school without incident. However, towards the end he threw in a couple adventures just to spice up the monotony of the drive. He was able to get to know Ogden a bit better, and then a highway patrol officer just outside of Pocatello. Oh, I shouldn't leave the last part hanging like that. His car broke down. The officer assisted him in getting a tow truck. His sister was out there quick as a flash to help him the rest of his stretch, that was a relief to us.
In his second adventure our guy tried to call us to let us know what was happening and see if his Dad had suggestions in what may be the problem. We were in a meeting and were not able to leave right away to answer the call, he called 9 times! I was worried, so when i called him back, I asked if everything was alright. His response was alarming to say the least, it went something to this effect: "my car broke down, My friend tried to wave down some help, got hit by a car and we are waiting for an ambulance!!!" I just about had a heart attack right there and then. I am glad though that it was not the case.
With that, I hope you have a great week. Until next time!
Monday, April 12, 2010
I had a great weekend! Saturday I was able to finish a project and get it out the door, I love creating, and with the little ones it is once in a while rather than all the time. No complaints though. They are growing like weeds, and before I know it they will be graduating from college. I was also able to begin at parting with things. It felt great! I took four bags and several items to Goodwill, its like a load off my shoulders. Did I say it felt great?
Sunday we had family come visit! All the way from Georgia, which brought in family from surrounding areas as well! The timing of the get together was great! I was able to see my cousins little guy who was an Easter baby, they are so precious when the are fresh from heaven. It was nice to take a moment and slow down. Pleasant indeed! Being able to catch up with one another. It is crazy how much children can grow in one year!
It seems this season of life is a busy one! Everyone is growing up and running in circles, just trying to hold on to life for the ride it provides. We have graduations coming up, family moving a bit closer, it seems between my husbands work, church callings and children's school and work, it is hard to find the time to take a breath. Here in a month or so, the dynamics will change and we will have the chance to enjoy it a bit more I am sure.
Any way, life is good, getting better everyday. I hope yours is the same. I hope it is wonderful!
Sunday we had family come visit! All the way from Georgia, which brought in family from surrounding areas as well! The timing of the get together was great! I was able to see my cousins little guy who was an Easter baby, they are so precious when the are fresh from heaven. It was nice to take a moment and slow down. Pleasant indeed! Being able to catch up with one another. It is crazy how much children can grow in one year!
It seems this season of life is a busy one! Everyone is growing up and running in circles, just trying to hold on to life for the ride it provides. We have graduations coming up, family moving a bit closer, it seems between my husbands work, church callings and children's school and work, it is hard to find the time to take a breath. Here in a month or so, the dynamics will change and we will have the chance to enjoy it a bit more I am sure.
Any way, life is good, getting better everyday. I hope yours is the same. I hope it is wonderful!
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Well, I need to de-clutter my life. It seems like I just keep collecting things. It is funny the things I hold onto and the reason behind it. When I die, my children wont want my clutter, and they certainly wont want to go though it all. I don't expect to die any time soon, however, I can cut back on things. Maybe if I de-clutter, it will help me simplify my life as well. Just looking around, I see my stuff and feel overwhelmed, it is almost crazy. I Don't think I am quite to the hording stage, but I am heading there, so I am going to go through things and get de-cluttered, maybe I will feel like I have a little more control of my surroundings this way. Any way, here goes!
This may have been more that you wanted to know...but I at least have it off my chest. Right?
This may have been more that you wanted to know...but I at least have it off my chest. Right?
Sunday, April 4, 2010
Well,this past week has been an adventure. Monday I discovered I was not expecting like I had thought. It was a disappointment. I had a good friend remind me that God is in charge and knows what is best for me and my family. This brought some comfort. I had another friend with whom I could talk a little and that seemed to take some weight off. Its funny, I was trying to decide: How does one act when they discovered they have miscarried? I don't want to be bitter, and I want to be there for my friends who are pregnant and having babies. I have two healthy little tykes. I wasn't far enough along to get too attached, I had been excited, but hadn't heard a heart beat. I felt like the feelings I was feeling were almost selfish. I know there are others out there who have miscarried many times, sometimes further along. I was glad my friend reminded me that God does know when it is right for my last one to come down. I just have to be patient. Okay, enough with this, other great things have happened since.
We had a whole slue of friends over to have a farewell for some long time friends who are moving on and out. I have to admit, this is the first time I have actually been able to sit back and enjoy having a gathering at my home. Don't get me wrong, I love having friends over! However, this is the first time I didn't stress about weather or not the house was clean enough. I told myself that true friends will be glad to see that my house can be a bit chaotic at times too! It turned out I was able to get it mostly orderly(don't tell any one my vacuum is out of order, and I ran out of time for the mopping...) We had a potluck and everyone seemed to have a great time! When all was said and done you would have never known we had a herd of people over. It was great!!!
This weekend we have been enjoying Conference and listening to the leaders. There are several areas I can work on in bettering and improving myself. I will just start with one at a time and do my best.
So, that is what has been missed out on this past little blurb I have not written. Life is good and taking it one day at a time seems to be the way to go these days, so lets do it!
We had a whole slue of friends over to have a farewell for some long time friends who are moving on and out. I have to admit, this is the first time I have actually been able to sit back and enjoy having a gathering at my home. Don't get me wrong, I love having friends over! However, this is the first time I didn't stress about weather or not the house was clean enough. I told myself that true friends will be glad to see that my house can be a bit chaotic at times too! It turned out I was able to get it mostly orderly(don't tell any one my vacuum is out of order, and I ran out of time for the mopping...) We had a potluck and everyone seemed to have a great time! When all was said and done you would have never known we had a herd of people over. It was great!!!
This weekend we have been enjoying Conference and listening to the leaders. There are several areas I can work on in bettering and improving myself. I will just start with one at a time and do my best.
So, that is what has been missed out on this past little blurb I have not written. Life is good and taking it one day at a time seems to be the way to go these days, so lets do it!
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
How time can get away from me! I can not think of anything specific to blog about today, so I will just share some of my randoms with you.
Well, we had a great spring break! I was able to have a good visit with one of my sister- in-laws, and find that a different, sometimes more experienced view on life's adventures can bring comfort and peace in some of the most unexpected ways. So thank you for listening and chatting with me. Thank you for lifting my pack, my load was feeling quite heavy. I find at times I am feeling burdened and overwhelmed, that God places people in my path to help in sending his tender mercies.
We were able to visit with my family some as well. I met my Sisters special someone and he seems like a pretty good guy. I hope she will get things straightened out so she can experience some long needed happiness. She deserves it. My parents are always fun to visit, even if they only want to see the grand kids...lol! I had a great chat with my mom.
The older children were able to join us off and on. I enjoyed seeing them and watching them with their siblings. We took some family pics, played games, down loaded music and visited...along with delicious food, we had a great time. I am blessed to have them in my life. They are blessed to have each other as well. Heavenly Father took many things into consideration when he put them together. For me and for them.
I guess this wasn't so random after all. I am thankful for so many things today. My heart is full.
Well, we had a great spring break! I was able to have a good visit with one of my sister- in-laws, and find that a different, sometimes more experienced view on life's adventures can bring comfort and peace in some of the most unexpected ways. So thank you for listening and chatting with me. Thank you for lifting my pack, my load was feeling quite heavy. I find at times I am feeling burdened and overwhelmed, that God places people in my path to help in sending his tender mercies.
We were able to visit with my family some as well. I met my Sisters special someone and he seems like a pretty good guy. I hope she will get things straightened out so she can experience some long needed happiness. She deserves it. My parents are always fun to visit, even if they only want to see the grand kids...lol! I had a great chat with my mom.
The older children were able to join us off and on. I enjoyed seeing them and watching them with their siblings. We took some family pics, played games, down loaded music and visited...along with delicious food, we had a great time. I am blessed to have them in my life. They are blessed to have each other as well. Heavenly Father took many things into consideration when he put them together. For me and for them.
I guess this wasn't so random after all. I am thankful for so many things today. My heart is full.
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Well, it seems I may have talked a little too soon about the weather being in my favor...lol! We had rain the two days following and snow to boot. Yes, I have not lost hope in seeing the rays of sun shine for more than a day at a time, but it looks like it will be a bit further down the well beaten path.
Until that time, I have work to do. I will show that Mr. weather, I will drag myself out of feeling suppressed by the walls of my home. I will show the weather man. I will clean my house, take my car in for an oil change, do crafts with the kiddo's, I will show him, I might even start my spring cleaning early this year. That'll show him who is boss!
He may have slowed me down for a moment, but I will pick up my feet and enjoy these rainy days! Humph! I will! Because I can.
Until that time, I have work to do. I will show that Mr. weather, I will drag myself out of feeling suppressed by the walls of my home. I will show the weather man. I will clean my house, take my car in for an oil change, do crafts with the kiddo's, I will show him, I might even start my spring cleaning early this year. That'll show him who is boss!
He may have slowed me down for a moment, but I will pick up my feet and enjoy these rainy days! Humph! I will! Because I can.
Sunday, March 7, 2010
The weather seems to be warming! I am so excited! Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being home with the family, but it will be pleasant to enjoy them in the great outdoors.
I love this time of year. You can hear birds returning to their homes, see green blades of grass as it peeks from under melting mounds of snow, children are out playing and soaking in the suns rays as they romp in sweaters and enjoy the warmer weather.
Soon we will find blossoms pocking their heads up from their long winter naps, the trees will come to life with lush green leaves and the cheery sounds of birds singing in their branches.
Life will once again be enjoyed from outside on bicycles, mid-day walks and playing in the park. Spring and summer are certainly something to look forward to.
I love this time of year. You can hear birds returning to their homes, see green blades of grass as it peeks from under melting mounds of snow, children are out playing and soaking in the suns rays as they romp in sweaters and enjoy the warmer weather.
Soon we will find blossoms pocking their heads up from their long winter naps, the trees will come to life with lush green leaves and the cheery sounds of birds singing in their branches.
Life will once again be enjoyed from outside on bicycles, mid-day walks and playing in the park. Spring and summer are certainly something to look forward to.
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
One of Lifes Little Adventures
We just had this little discussion. The conversations we hold with our young. All I can do is shake my head. Mind you this conversation is with my three year old, so bear with me.
"Sweety, I need you to go and try to go potty for me."
"Okay" she heads to the bathroom and quickly returns "Mommy, I can't go potty, there is a little turd in the toilet, right in the hole."
"Well, flush again, and then go please."
"But it isn't my turd. Why do I have to flush my brothers turd?"
"Because I am pretty sure it is your turd, seeing as you were the last to use the bathroom and your brother is at school."
"But brother doesn't wipe when he goes potty."
"What does that have to do with you re-flushing and going potty?"
"There is no toilet paper in the toilet with the turd..."
Well, I finally convinced her she could flush it and go. How exasperating. I had to explain that "I am pretty sure brother uses toilet paper in specific instances...just like everybody else."
I have to admit I was trying real hard not to chuckle as we went through this discussion. Boy. Isn't life full of little adventures.
"Sweety, I need you to go and try to go potty for me."
"Okay" she heads to the bathroom and quickly returns "Mommy, I can't go potty, there is a little turd in the toilet, right in the hole."
"Well, flush again, and then go please."
"But it isn't my turd. Why do I have to flush my brothers turd?"
"Because I am pretty sure it is your turd, seeing as you were the last to use the bathroom and your brother is at school."
"But brother doesn't wipe when he goes potty."
"What does that have to do with you re-flushing and going potty?"
"There is no toilet paper in the toilet with the turd..."
Well, I finally convinced her she could flush it and go. How exasperating. I had to explain that "I am pretty sure brother uses toilet paper in specific instances...just like everybody else."
I have to admit I was trying real hard not to chuckle as we went through this discussion. Boy. Isn't life full of little adventures.
Friday, February 19, 2010
It came to this?!?
A very good friend of mine has the two little ones for the afternoon, so I thought it a good time to tackle the toys and clothes that breed like rabbits!
Let me preface this with: "In no corner of my mind did I even come close to correctness when I guessed this would only take an hour or so." I have been at it for two and I am still only at the beginning.
Who would have known that two children under the age of three could accumulate so many clothes!(I haven't even started with the toys yet *sigh*) I know, it is no-bodies fault but my own. Buying clothes as they out grew their others, and then with potty training needing some spares here and there to keep washing clothes to once or twice a week...what was I thinking? How do those mothers on TV do it? seriously!
I have made sure I have packed clothes as they have out grown them. Just to try keeping on top of things. However, as I began going through their closet today, I found miscellaneous clothing here and there and then realized in my zealous packing I had not marked boxes with size or sex. Also I found a stash of clothes my cousin had given me...my daughter completely skipped! Had I not bought clothes for that era, we could have kept things down to 1 box per size. So, for 2 and 1/2 sizes we now have two boxes...grrrr.
Now to move all of these into storage. We want to have another and seeing as it is still in the makings, we don't know the sex....So, save both just in case right? Right. Plus, I have to keep mine, my sisters and my cousins(hopefully that covers everyone)....clothes separate, because what if someone will be needing them back.
What happened to the good old days when kids could run free in diapers? Just an outing outfit, Sunday outfit and good ole pj's? I can only shake my head at the moment. Well, back to tackling the mess, wish me luck!
Let me preface this with: "In no corner of my mind did I even come close to correctness when I guessed this would only take an hour or so." I have been at it for two and I am still only at the beginning.
Who would have known that two children under the age of three could accumulate so many clothes!(I haven't even started with the toys yet *sigh*) I know, it is no-bodies fault but my own. Buying clothes as they out grew their others, and then with potty training needing some spares here and there to keep washing clothes to once or twice a week...what was I thinking? How do those mothers on TV do it? seriously!
I have made sure I have packed clothes as they have out grown them. Just to try keeping on top of things. However, as I began going through their closet today, I found miscellaneous clothing here and there and then realized in my zealous packing I had not marked boxes with size or sex. Also I found a stash of clothes my cousin had given me...my daughter completely skipped! Had I not bought clothes for that era, we could have kept things down to 1 box per size. So, for 2 and 1/2 sizes we now have two boxes...grrrr.
Now to move all of these into storage. We want to have another and seeing as it is still in the makings, we don't know the sex....So, save both just in case right? Right. Plus, I have to keep mine, my sisters and my cousins(hopefully that covers everyone)....clothes separate, because what if someone will be needing them back.
What happened to the good old days when kids could run free in diapers? Just an outing outfit, Sunday outfit and good ole pj's? I can only shake my head at the moment. Well, back to tackling the mess, wish me luck!
Thursday, February 18, 2010
11 year old example
This week is a far cry from the excitement I experienced last week in all of my adventures with ailing children. Children are well and back into their live full swing mode.
Today I am feeling pretty proud of our 11 yr old. His report card came yesterday and he had a great one! Nothing below a B! And over half of the grades were in the A range!He's got smart brains, yes he does! To top things off though, he came home feeling pretty good with himself today. He stood up to a bully at school for a friend of his. You should have seen him, he was beaming from ear to ear. He did it by just telling the bully if they had nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all. Apparently that was all they needed to hear, because the bullying was over for the day. Yay!
While I am telling you about this boy, I might as well add what a great big and little brother he is. Including the family in his activities and ideas is always counted on. He is our tender one. He is sensitive to others and their feelings, and willing to help most of the time (If I said all the time, you mothers out there would think I had a miracle step-child, he is normal, he groans when asked to do chores, rolls his eyes sometimes, but mostly he is just a wonderful kid). Well, now you know our 11 year old a bit better.
Today I am feeling pretty proud of our 11 yr old. His report card came yesterday and he had a great one! Nothing below a B! And over half of the grades were in the A range!He's got smart brains, yes he does! To top things off though, he came home feeling pretty good with himself today. He stood up to a bully at school for a friend of his. You should have seen him, he was beaming from ear to ear. He did it by just telling the bully if they had nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all. Apparently that was all they needed to hear, because the bullying was over for the day. Yay!
While I am telling you about this boy, I might as well add what a great big and little brother he is. Including the family in his activities and ideas is always counted on. He is our tender one. He is sensitive to others and their feelings, and willing to help most of the time (If I said all the time, you mothers out there would think I had a miracle step-child, he is normal, he groans when asked to do chores, rolls his eyes sometimes, but mostly he is just a wonderful kid). Well, now you know our 11 year old a bit better.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Adventures of Sorts...of Motherhood...
If it isn't one adventure, then it is another. If you have a weak stomach, read no further. There I have done my part in warning you. I am serious.
It began early last Sunday morning, I awoke at 4:30 am to my youngest choking I went to check on the tyke and found he had vomited all over his bed. Ew..I know. He seemed to be perfectly fine afterwords, still does thank goodness. We thought we might be done.
Then, Monday evening my daughter decided to have a small episode. On the hour for three hours it repeated its self and we had great fun cleaning up after her. When I decided she was finished for the evening I was heading to bed (1:30 am) Just then our 11 year old decided he was going to start (I know, he didn't really have a say in the matter, poor guy!) Instead of going to bed I pulled his drenched bedding from the bed and washed it...*sigh*, got him in the bath and I think I made it to bed between 2:30 and 3:00.
My good husband took a bit of a shift between obligations until I was able to catch a few Z's. I believe there weren't any more problems...until Wednesday morning at 3:30 am. I awoke to my daughter vomiting again. Okay, obviously this was not the 12, or even 24 hour flu. Joy. Two more times and she seemed to be better. I thing I did two loads of laundry related to the early morning instances.
Thursday went well, as did Friday! However, here we are Saturday, and now we are experiencing a whole new adventure. I have mopped the bathroom floor, I will need to clean my carpets soon, though I think I will wait until this passes. To say the least, we are clinging to pull-ups instead of panties. She feels belittled, but it seems to be an easier answer than tossing a whole bunch of undies...*sigh*. I know, I could wash them...but ugh, sorry, I have reached my limits for the moment.
Oh the adventures. I can hardly wait for these particular ones to be over. Some adventures just can't be enjoyed the same as say...Disneyland or something of that sort.
It began early last Sunday morning, I awoke at 4:30 am to my youngest choking I went to check on the tyke and found he had vomited all over his bed. Ew..I know. He seemed to be perfectly fine afterwords, still does thank goodness. We thought we might be done.
Then, Monday evening my daughter decided to have a small episode. On the hour for three hours it repeated its self and we had great fun cleaning up after her. When I decided she was finished for the evening I was heading to bed (1:30 am) Just then our 11 year old decided he was going to start (I know, he didn't really have a say in the matter, poor guy!) Instead of going to bed I pulled his drenched bedding from the bed and washed it...*sigh*, got him in the bath and I think I made it to bed between 2:30 and 3:00.
My good husband took a bit of a shift between obligations until I was able to catch a few Z's. I believe there weren't any more problems...until Wednesday morning at 3:30 am. I awoke to my daughter vomiting again. Okay, obviously this was not the 12, or even 24 hour flu. Joy. Two more times and she seemed to be better. I thing I did two loads of laundry related to the early morning instances.
Thursday went well, as did Friday! However, here we are Saturday, and now we are experiencing a whole new adventure. I have mopped the bathroom floor, I will need to clean my carpets soon, though I think I will wait until this passes. To say the least, we are clinging to pull-ups instead of panties. She feels belittled, but it seems to be an easier answer than tossing a whole bunch of undies...*sigh*. I know, I could wash them...but ugh, sorry, I have reached my limits for the moment.
Oh the adventures. I can hardly wait for these particular ones to be over. Some adventures just can't be enjoyed the same as say...Disneyland or something of that sort.
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Random Thoughts...
Well, its been a crazy week in our house hold. It seems the flu just finishes and gives us a break (for a week or so) and then hits us again. If any one has suggestions on getting vomit stains and odors out of a mattress, I am open to suggestions. Other than that I have miraculously stayed afloat with the house...mostly. I think I have washed enough bedding to account for everyone here and abroad. For the month any way. I know, TMI. Other than that not a whole lot has taken place. I have had the words and actions of others haunt me this week, having too much time to think can and is a problem at times. The problem with it is: we hear things that people would never say to our face...which is a good thing...but then you you begin thinking: I don't think I have presented myself on those terms, so why do they think that of me? How can people be so cruel in their thinking? Then I think, how many times have I said something not knowing the whole story or, for that mater wanting to know or understand the other side? I think: I may know better, or assume that I know it all. Through this and other thoughts it keeps occurring to me that is the reason we are taught not to judge. I can't make judgments on others, because I don't know the whole or even half of the story. Their shoes have been tailored to them. The portion I do know is one sided, skewed and shared in the moment. Often times because it is one sided , skewed or shared in the moment, it is put in a darker light. *sigh*. I need to remind myself that I have made unfair judgments and, whether I deserved it or not, I have been forgiven. This turning the other cheek thing is so difficult. Especially when you feel it is unjust of the one 'slapping'. I apologize if this sounds angry, just something I needed to put out there and get off my chest. On a good note, I think the flu may be though with this coarse. I am thankful for the Savior and the atonement. I know through it I can be molded and perfected...when I remember to apply it. When I humble myself. Humility. A whole other lesson. Luckily I have a whole life time to learn it.
Friday, February 5, 2010
More Reads
Well, I have been enjoying another great book! "Rebekah" by Orson Scott Card. It is from his trilogy "Women of Genesis".
I have actually been listening to it on CD between errands and runs. I am enjoying how well written the book is, especially the building up of each if the Biblical characters. When making my purchase of the book on CD I didn't realize the book I have is the second of a series...oops! I guess I will be going back before moving forward with the nest one...lol!
Along with my listening to "Rebekah" I am reading a book called "Women of the Old Testament". I believe That the research of Orson S.C. is accurate, consistent with the history and teachings found in the Bible. It is bringing the old Bible stories to life for me!
Other books that have done this for me as well are:
"Two from Galilee" by Marjorie Holmes
"The Red Tent" * by Anita Diamant
others from the trilogy by Orson Scott Card are:
"Sarah"
"Leah and Rachael"
*The Red Tent is a well written book , but has some material that can be offensive to others. I have recommended it to others forgetting about the offensive part(I had skimmed past it) and was told they were surprised I would recommend the book. However, I enjoyed the way Anita wrote the book and painted the characters.
I have actually been listening to it on CD between errands and runs. I am enjoying how well written the book is, especially the building up of each if the Biblical characters. When making my purchase of the book on CD I didn't realize the book I have is the second of a series...oops! I guess I will be going back before moving forward with the nest one...lol!
Along with my listening to "Rebekah" I am reading a book called "Women of the Old Testament". I believe That the research of Orson S.C. is accurate, consistent with the history and teachings found in the Bible. It is bringing the old Bible stories to life for me!
Other books that have done this for me as well are:
"Two from Galilee" by Marjorie Holmes
"The Red Tent" * by Anita Diamant
others from the trilogy by Orson Scott Card are:
"Sarah"
"Leah and Rachael"
*The Red Tent is a well written book , but has some material that can be offensive to others. I have recommended it to others forgetting about the offensive part(I had skimmed past it) and was told they were surprised I would recommend the book. However, I enjoyed the way Anita wrote the book and painted the characters.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Bed Time?
Last night my three year old was looking for every excuse in the book not to go to bed, but she came up with a real good one and I thought I would share it with you, here it is:
"I can't go to bed right now"
"Why not?"
With great exasperation in her voice, and all sorts of drama in the body language she exclaims "Because my tummy says if I don't eat right now, I'm gonna die!"
Well, I have to admit I didn't want to see her die this young, so we had a burrito with cheese, a glass of water and then went to bed. *sigh*
"I can't go to bed right now"
"Why not?"
With great exasperation in her voice, and all sorts of drama in the body language she exclaims "Because my tummy says if I don't eat right now, I'm gonna die!"
Well, I have to admit I didn't want to see her die this young, so we had a burrito with cheese, a glass of water and then went to bed. *sigh*
Friday, January 29, 2010
Family
We had some extended family driving through the other day. I love having them drop in on us! This time they came with some of the younger clan. The youngest, a little girl one-year senior to my three year old and the only girl, having 3 older brothers. On her way to our house she was told of my little one and said "Can she be my forever-sister-cousin?"
Shortly after meeting and playing together, my daughter was over heard saying: "Will you be staying with us forever?"
Later in the evening my little one did everything in her power to keep the night young. She didn't want her new found friend to leave. Finally when I was able to get her in her bed, she was sobbing. She wanted her new found friend to "stay forever."
I had the girlish whim, hoping for the same thing. But as reality is, we have to go our separate ways. The comfort is found in knowing we are family and our paths will pass again.
Shortly after meeting and playing together, my daughter was over heard saying: "Will you be staying with us forever?"
Later in the evening my little one did everything in her power to keep the night young. She didn't want her new found friend to leave. Finally when I was able to get her in her bed, she was sobbing. She wanted her new found friend to "stay forever."
I had the girlish whim, hoping for the same thing. But as reality is, we have to go our separate ways. The comfort is found in knowing we are family and our paths will pass again.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
An Awareness in Differences
To begin this entry I should share this little tid-bit, and that is, we live in a small community(though if you talk to someone born and raised there, they well tell you it is a booming metropolis, one of their larger cities). We have farmers for miles and miles again. Our town has very little cultural diversity. The diversity that is there blends in with ease.
Today I am visiting my parent who live in a much larger city. Salt Lake City to be exact. Here there is a lot of diversity. To spend some of the day we decided to run a couple errands that can only be ran here. At our last stop our checker just happened to be African.
My daughter says with concern in her voice: "Look. She has black skin!"
Red crept into my cheeks I am sure, as I tried to come up with something. Not a moment too late, I had this thought and shared it with her: "God makes many people with many colors, because he likes variety. He likes to spice things up."
That seemed to be all she needed, she turned to the checker and announced with her biggest smile: "I would like this popcorn chicken please."
Today I am visiting my parent who live in a much larger city. Salt Lake City to be exact. Here there is a lot of diversity. To spend some of the day we decided to run a couple errands that can only be ran here. At our last stop our checker just happened to be African.
My daughter says with concern in her voice: "Look. She has black skin!"
Red crept into my cheeks I am sure, as I tried to come up with something. Not a moment too late, I had this thought and shared it with her: "God makes many people with many colors, because he likes variety. He likes to spice things up."
That seemed to be all she needed, she turned to the checker and announced with her biggest smile: "I would like this popcorn chicken please."
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Prayer
"As soon as we learn the true relationship in which we stand toward God(namely, God is our Father, and we are his children), then at once prayer becomes natural and instinctive on our part(Matt 7:7-11). Many of the so called difficulties about prayer arise from forgetting this relationship.
Prayer is the act by which the will of the father and the will of the child are brought into correspondence with each other. The object of prayer is not to change the will of the God, but to secure for ourselves the blessings that God is already willing to grant, but that are made conditional on our asking for them. Blessings require some work or effort on our part before we can obtain them. Prayer is a form of work, and is an appointed means for obtaining the highest of all blessings." ~BD, Prayer
I was reminded of the truth in this quote last night. Reminded of who I am. That I have to do my part to achieve the goals I set. Also, that God is more than willing to help me in my weaknesses. I only need remember our relationship, His and my active roles.
A few differences of God and our fathers here on earth is: He is perfect. He is all knowing. And He loves us, no matter how many times we fall, if we reach for Him as Peter reached for Christ on the sea*, He will lift us up. He will help us brush off and go forward. He gives us strength when we think we have gone as far as we can. He understands us completely.
As I come to understand this more, it is easier for me to turn to Him. It is easier to recognize He really does want what is best for me. In wanting what is best for me He is going to stretch me, sometimes more than I feel is necessary. However, if I am willing to put my trust in Him, His role and turn to Him in humility I can and will find the strength to move forward. I will succeed and I will find true happiness.
*Matthew 14:25-31 My favorite verses of these given are 30 and 31, so I will quote them here:
30- "But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid(speaking of Peter); and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord save me."
now, here is my favorite part:
31- "And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?"
Now, Peter was chastised for doubting, but of all of the apostles, he was the only one with faith enough to try. Christ loved him enough to reach for him immediately after being asked for help. I just find this comforting.
Prayer is the act by which the will of the father and the will of the child are brought into correspondence with each other. The object of prayer is not to change the will of the God, but to secure for ourselves the blessings that God is already willing to grant, but that are made conditional on our asking for them. Blessings require some work or effort on our part before we can obtain them. Prayer is a form of work, and is an appointed means for obtaining the highest of all blessings." ~BD, Prayer
I was reminded of the truth in this quote last night. Reminded of who I am. That I have to do my part to achieve the goals I set. Also, that God is more than willing to help me in my weaknesses. I only need remember our relationship, His and my active roles.
A few differences of God and our fathers here on earth is: He is perfect. He is all knowing. And He loves us, no matter how many times we fall, if we reach for Him as Peter reached for Christ on the sea*, He will lift us up. He will help us brush off and go forward. He gives us strength when we think we have gone as far as we can. He understands us completely.
As I come to understand this more, it is easier for me to turn to Him. It is easier to recognize He really does want what is best for me. In wanting what is best for me He is going to stretch me, sometimes more than I feel is necessary. However, if I am willing to put my trust in Him, His role and turn to Him in humility I can and will find the strength to move forward. I will succeed and I will find true happiness.
*Matthew 14:25-31 My favorite verses of these given are 30 and 31, so I will quote them here:
30- "But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid(speaking of Peter); and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord save me."
now, here is my favorite part:
31- "And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?"
Now, Peter was chastised for doubting, but of all of the apostles, he was the only one with faith enough to try. Christ loved him enough to reach for him immediately after being asked for help. I just find this comforting.
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
A Mid-Wifes Tale
I just finished this most excellent book! If you are interested in history, maybe the understanding of the late 1700's, early 1800's from the perspective of an average woman of that time period, you will enjoy this book. The author studied and researched may archival books and papers to help the reader understand the underlying "web" of Martha's life and a little of her community.
For me the book was not easy read. However, when I had a bit of time to myself it was a pleasant read.
Mostly I found the book interesting because I try to journal some myself. As I read the things Martha encountered, though her settings differ from my own, I found that many of lifes trials are the same, worry over children, finances, the need of friends and trust, along with the seasons life presents us with. They are much the same. And through these trials we have the same Being to whom we can turn for comfort and find peace. And when we place our lives in his hands, we too can be molded into a better, more understanding person.
For me the book was not easy read. However, when I had a bit of time to myself it was a pleasant read.
Mostly I found the book interesting because I try to journal some myself. As I read the things Martha encountered, though her settings differ from my own, I found that many of lifes trials are the same, worry over children, finances, the need of friends and trust, along with the seasons life presents us with. They are much the same. And through these trials we have the same Being to whom we can turn for comfort and find peace. And when we place our lives in his hands, we too can be molded into a better, more understanding person.
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Welcome to 2010!!!
The New year has rolled around, and here we are! 2010 who'd ever thought! Well, we had a great New Years, not the tradition, that's for sure. We had one sick, and another packing for College...and he's off!
Watched a couple movies Cars, Ratatouille, Flushed Away all while enjoying some divine chips and dip. Had the littlest ones in bed by ten-thirty, and folded laundry off and on, it was a great time!
We did celebrate about 5 after the new year with some sparkling cider, and grape juice...oh! and we discovered a great Pomegranate sparkly this year! Then it was off to taking care of a sick boy, and another coming down with the bug. Luckily for me the bug only lasts about 12 hours.
This is going to be an adventurous year, I can feel it in my bones! Grab on tight, keep you appendages in the car, and if the wind doesn't take your breath with the descent, well holler for the fun of it!
Watched a couple movies Cars, Ratatouille, Flushed Away all while enjoying some divine chips and dip. Had the littlest ones in bed by ten-thirty, and folded laundry off and on, it was a great time!
We did celebrate about 5 after the new year with some sparkling cider, and grape juice...oh! and we discovered a great Pomegranate sparkly this year! Then it was off to taking care of a sick boy, and another coming down with the bug. Luckily for me the bug only lasts about 12 hours.
This is going to be an adventurous year, I can feel it in my bones! Grab on tight, keep you appendages in the car, and if the wind doesn't take your breath with the descent, well holler for the fun of it!
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